The Finch Formerly Known As Gold

15 November 2004

Speaking words of wisdom

We are all, I think, slow learners, and some of us think we're slower than the rest. Michele, at least, is no longer concerned with the speed:

I keep going back to that night in Thanksgiving 1998, when I weighed the options of taking a chance at another heart break or not taking the chance and continuing to be this blank slate of a person. Life is all about chances, clichéd as that may sound. And the early fall despair-by-memory that I feel every year always gives way to March. I couldn't have spring without autumn.

I think I finally found what I've been looking for. It's not success, it's not riches or fame. It's just the road. I don't care where the road ends or if I ever get to the end. I've only been looking for the road itself and I finally uncovered it, beneath a pile of burning leaves and four years worth of words piled upon one another like a jagged mountain.

I've certainly learned a lot about myself here, mostly what I'm capable of. I've also learned, in the past month or so, what I don't want and don't need. You would think a person would figure this all out before they were 42 years old. Perhaps some of us are just slow learners. But it's in the learning that we really live.

It's the journey, not the destination. I didn't really pick up on this until around Thanksgiving 2003, when I turned 50.

And there's only one thing you can do with emotional baggage: go somewhere — doesn't have to be a physical place, necessarily — and deliberately leave it behind.

We are, all of us, works in progress. Some of us just take a little longer to see where we are.

Posted at 1:32 PM to General Disinterest

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Man, that baggage was getting heavy. Dumping it, a bit at a time.

Posted by: michele at 1:50 PM on 15 November 2004

The important thing is, you recognize it when you see it, and you push it off the cliff when it's close enough. :)

Posted by: CGHill at 2:14 PM on 15 November 2004