23 January 2006Indifferent strokesA chap named Thomas Jones once said, "Friends may come and go, but enemies accumulate." Steve H. says three people absolutely loathe him, and it was pretty much inevitable:
All you have to do in this life to make people hate you is to tell the truth and do what you think is right. If you keep your mouth shut or tell little white lies, and you go along to keep from rocking the boat, you'll go to your grave without a single enemy, or functioning testicles. Most people do their best to blend in with the herd. Anyone who shows any integrity gets nailed to a cross.
This doesn't work in reverse, though: just because you have trials and/or tribulations, it isn't a sign that you're on the side of the angels. I don't think anyone actually hates me, though I can think of one or two who would probably be more comfortable if I'd forget to pay my hosting bill (which, incidentally, is paid through December). Nothing personal, necessarily; it could simply be that my somewhat-contradictory persona as a moderately-apolitical political junkie I'm a big fan of gridlock, which offends that segment of the electorate which thinks that government should constantly be doing something is something they reckon ought not to be encouraged, especially since my readership has grown beyond people who have me on speed dial. So I'm not in the same boat as Steve. But you probably won't find me next to Moira Breen either:
I have been, however, even more bewildered by people who take a shine to me for no reasons I can fathom.
The combination of brilliant (so I read) and gorgeous (so I am assured by David Fleck) is always a draw. Not that I ever had any substantial quantities of either. Posted at 2:39 PM to General DisinterestInteresting that on the same day we both wrote about friends and enemies. You with your own brilliance, me with someone else's... Posted by: Winston at 5:25 AM on 24 January 2006I just don't understand people who make hate their life's work -- and it is work. But I guess the trouble is that one never realizes that until they stop doing it. Posted by: McGehee at 10:48 AM on 24 January 2006I really don't intend to comment on every post-I just like your site. McGehee has said something profound-you do have to work to hate someone, otherwise mitigating thoughts about the other person tend to creep in. Posted by: Campagna at 12:30 AM on 25 January 2006In the future, only two minutes, at least according to Orwell. Thank you for the gracious comment in that last paragraph, Charles. As for the latter attribute, Fleck is of course a lying sack. However, a little delusional gallantry is probably a virtue in a spouse. McGehee - Well, there's always the "I love enemies, though not in the Christian way"(Turgenev, iirc?) slant. Cultivating enemies can be entertaining, I guess. Though I don't get the impression Steve H.'s stalker was enjoying himself. Posted by: Moira Breen at 10:07 AM on 25 January 2006 |