The Finch Formerly Known As Gold

24 January 2006

Regular issues

Lesley has a list of things she'd just as soon never again hear spoken by some guy, and I suppose it (sort of) speaks well of me that I've only said one of them myself.

(When I was in fifth grade. Sweden and Finland, as I recall, were also in Scandinavia.)

And this would seem to be so obvious as to go without saying, but apparently not everyone has caught on:

If you want to have a relationship, you will need to put up with the other person's issues. The key is to figure out which issues you can deal with and which you cannot. If you are having trouble finding someone who has issues you can deal with, the problem is likely with your expectations, not with the vast majority of the opposite sex. (Nor, incidentally, should it be particularly shocking that a group of people with similar experiences will share similar issues.)

Actually, my problem is with finding someone who can deal with my issues, which are vast (or at least half-vast) and complex, reason enough, I suppose, to keep the door closed.

Posted at 2:24 PM to Table for One


Having read the list...

"On the advice of my attorney, I decline to answer..."

Posted by: McGehee at 6:27 PM on 25 January 2006