Gone far too soon

An email sent to contributors to her medical-treatment fund, which raised somewhere on the far side of $60,000:

We regret to inform you about this sad tragedy.

On Friday January 7, 2013 at 1:30 PM our loved daughter Kiki took her last breath as her heart stopped. She experienced no pain.

It was unexpected and I don’t really know what went wrong. We had hopes that she will recover since progress was made. A few days prior to her leaving us she had issue with “out of range Potassium and sodium levels”. We tried to balance it with proper drugs which also increased her heart rate and lower her blood pressure. The medical team here at CHOC Hospital in Orange County has tried to increase her blood pressure rate with different medication but without success. Around 11:00 Am on Friday we experienced a drastic drop in her heart rate which basically symbolized the end for the medical staff.

I was standing next to her talking, massaging, kissing and hopping that the heart rate will climb back up. I called my friend Tara Strong and together we have tried to encourage Kiki to keep on going. When the heart rate kept on dropping we realized that this is the end. I asked Tara to sing for Kiki the “My Little Mermaid” song since Kiki loved Tara and this song. It was a magical moment; a few of the nurses in the room whispery joined and sang with Tara as Kiki has taken her last breath. Thank you Tara Strong for everything you have done for Kiki.

We have lost the war but not without a fight. There was NO MEDICAL TREATMENT for the type of cancer Kiki had, especially because of the late diagnostic by the hospital in Los Angeles and the Misdiagnosis of the tumor type by the same medical professionals. Without a doubt I feel that Chemo would have been fatal (32 month ago the doctors told us that Chemo may buy us 1-3 month may be a month or two longer if we are lucky). As parents we cannot deny medical treatment to a child if doctors feel it will be effective. Science and the medical industry went a long way but at this point of the game there is no cure for many illnesses including cancer. As parents we must try anything because a cure can come from any one.

And now, the fight goes on:

This fundraiser is to support legal justice for the wrongful death of our daughter Kiki Havivy.

On January 4, 2011, at the age of 5 years old, Kiki Havivy had surgery at Kaiser Permanente in Los Angeles and was diagnosed with a tumor type called PNET. On January 13, 2011, 9 days after her surgery Kaiser doctor Jerry Cheng informed the parents that Kiki had a Highly Malignant cancer called Glioblastoma stage IV. Dr. Cheng gave Kiki up to 6 months to live with a (0) zero chance of survival. While later it was discovered that Kiki’s tumor was misdiagnosed by Kaiser and yet, no one at Kaiser ever questioned the discrepancy in her diagnosis nor did anyone ever do a third opinion as to what the correct diagnosis should have been.

Most of that original $60k came from the brony community; I am somewhat surprised that they haven’t rushed in for this new endeavor. Tara Strong, voice of Twilight Sparkle, duly reported the story to Twitter, and I thank her for that. Maybe I can awaken a few memories in the ponyverse.





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