The Finch Formerly Known As Gold

4 November 2006

Sad songs say so much

Venomous Kate is looking for the 50 Most Depressing Songs, apparently to inspire her upcoming novel. Please feel free to make recommendations to her.

I suggested Jimmy Ruffin's "What Becomes of the Brokenhearted," which is a world-class downer, but I didn't mention this: at one time the song contained a spoken-word intro which was perhaps intended to set the mood, but which didn't make it into the version released to the general public. After listening to it, I don't miss it at all:

A world filled with love is a wonderful sight
Being in love is one's heart's delight
But that look of love isn't on my face
That enchanted feeling has been replaced

Somebody, maybe Berry Gordy himself, heard that and thought it was just too much.

This isn't quite an isolated incident: right before the last verse of the Shangri-Las' heartrending "I Can Never Go Home Anymore," at about the 2:30 point, Mary Weiss originally half-cried, half-whispered, "Listen, I'm not finished." The line was mixed out of the 45 and wasn't heard again for decades. (And this, too, is a Depressing Song, what with mother dying and runaway daughter contrite.)

Still, if we want Serious Discomfort in a pop tune, we call upon King Crimson, which in its first two albums was wont to work up implausible titles like "'Epitaph' including 'March for No Reason' and 'Tomorrow and Tomorrow'," from which we extract this example of finely-crafted angst:

The wall on which the prophets wrote
Is cracking at the seams
Upon the instruments of death
The sunlight brightly gleams
When every man is torn apart
With nightmares and with dreams
Will no one lay the laurel wreath
As silence drowns the screams

Confusion will be my epitaph
As I crawl a cracked and broken path
If we make it we can all sit back and laugh
But I fear tomorrow I'll be crying

This might be laughable were it not so perfectly orchestrated: the song (which runs over eight and a half minutes, with only one more verse and a repeat of the verse/chorus above) is carefully calculated to resonate against your last nerve, making seemingly-adolescent rubbish into a true Tale of Terror.

(Lyricist Pete Sinfield, incidentally, is responsible for the unofficial name of my workplace, but that's another tale of terror story.)

Posted at 2:45 PM to Tongue and Groove


The most depressing song I ever heard was "Nobody Loves me but My Mother" by B.B. King. Goes like this:

"Nobody loves me but my mother,
and she could be jivin' too
Nobody loves me but my mother,
and she could be jivin' too
Now you see why I act funny baby,
when you do the things you do "

After that, he's just too depressed to sing anymore and gives up.

Posted by: Mister Snitch! at 3:34 PM on 4 November 2006

I nominate the Grateful Dead's Althea:

You may be Saturday's child all grown
moving with a pinch of grace
You may be a clown in the burying ground
or just another pretty face
You may be the fate of Ophelia
sleeping and perchance to dream -
honest to the point of recklessness
self centered to the extreme

Ain't nobody messin with you but you
your friends are getting most concerned -
loose with the truth
maybe it's your fire
but baby...don't get burned
When the smoke has cleared, she said,
that's what she said to me:
You're gonna want a bed to lay your head
and a little sympathy

Catchy tune too -- especially if you're already down and like to dwell on the beauty of such things.

Posted by: Eric Scheie at 4:36 PM on 5 November 2006

I'll nominate Life of Agony's "Let's Pretend" from their second album. It chokes me up every time.

In the stillness of the night
My eyes are closed, My mouth is wide
I could see her face
Her beautiful hair, I could recognize
She looks at me cold
She probably don't know, who I am

Mommy it's me
It's Keith, You had me back when

But sometimes I like to pretend
That she knows me
That she holds me
I guess I can't
Because she doesn't know who I am.

My mind it's dreaming
God it's so misleading
Do you think it's 'cause I've grown old
Is it true what I was told
You cried to leave me
You know I know it's not your fault
You had a husband who was selfish and cold
Believe me I know

Now I hear you used to treat me cold
You dissappeared and left me all alone
I'm sure you didn't know right from wrong
'cause both of you were always getting stoned

But sometimes I like to pretend
That she knows me
That she holds me
I guess I can't
Because she doesn't know who I am.

Posted by: robohara at 10:59 AM on 6 November 2006